It is a cultural thing.
Arranged marriages in these countries tend to have a higher success rate
than a love match.
There is no reason for you to feel uncomfortable to the issue as it is not your culture and to be fair, there are things in your culture that maybe frowned upon in theirs.
Arranged and forced marriage are two very different things.
Those parents making an arranged match, weigh all the options, pro and cons and then come up with a suitable match.
Arranged marriages were also common in the western world before, so it is not a East West clash dilemma.
And why would you think that parents would choose to hitch their own kids with a spouse that is not good for their son or daughter?
And also, arranged marriages only get the green signal when both partners meet and think that they are a good match, over time and then agree. It is not a one time meeting and boom you are married the next day.
Arranged marriages in these countries tend to have a higher success rate
than a love match.
There is no reason for you to feel uncomfortable to the issue as it is not your culture and to be fair, there are things in your culture that maybe frowned upon in theirs.
Arranged and forced marriage are two very different things.
Those parents making an arranged match, weigh all the options, pro and cons and then come up with a suitable match.
Arranged marriages were also common in the western world before, so it is not a East West clash dilemma.
And why would you think that parents would choose to hitch their own kids with a spouse that is not good for their son or daughter?
And also, arranged marriages only get the green signal when both partners meet and think that they are a good match, over time and then agree. It is not a one time meeting and boom you are married the next day.
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